Sis, I need to talk to you about how other women make you feel. A beautiful woman walks into the room—and you immediately feel less than. A confident woman speaks—and you shrink. A successful woman exists—and you feel inadequate. An attractive woman is nearby—and you spiral into insecurity. Other women don’t even have to do
Sis, I need to talk to you about why you compare yourself to women he follows every time you look at his phone. You know you shouldn’t look. You know it hurts. You know nothing good comes from it. But you can’t stop yourself. You scroll through the women he follows on Instagram. The models.
Sis, I need to talk to you about why self love feels unnatural and how strange it feels when you try to love yourself. You know you’re supposed to love yourself. Everyone says it. Self-help books, therapists, Instagram posts—they all preach self-love. But when you actually try it, it feels completely unnatural, and self love
Sis, I need to talk to you about why you lose yourself in relationships and the version of yourself you leave behind. You know who you are when you’re alone. Your preferences. Your boundaries. Your values. Your voice. Your needs. Your authentic self. But when you’re in a relationship, she disappears, and you start to
Sis, I need to talk to you about why self care feels wrong and how to prioritize yourself without guilt when you focus on yourself. You know you need to prioritize yourself. Everyone tells you that. Self-care articles, therapists, friends—they all say “put yourself first sometimes.” But when you actually try to do it—it feels
Sis, I need to talk to you about how to prioritize yourself without guilt when you’re running on empty. You’re exhausted. Depleted. Running on fumes. You have nothing left to give. And yet—you’re still putting yourself last. Everyone else’s needs come first:Your partner’s comfort before your restYour kids’ wants before your needsYour boss’s demands before
Sis, I need to talk to you about why you’re so hard on yourself after mistakes and how to be kind to yourself when you mess up. You make a mistake. A human mistake. Something everyone does. Something small, or even something bigger—but still fixable, still forgivable. And you’re brutal to yourself, constantly being hard
Sis, I need to talk to you about the thing that should make you feel most secure—but instead fills you with doubt. When someone loves you, you question your worth. Not before. Not when you’re alone. Not when you’re single and independent. When someone shows you love, affection, care—that’s when the doubt floods in. “Why
Sis, I need to talk to you about the painful feeling that won’t go away, even though you’re in a relationship. Many people feel unchosen in relationship even when they are technically committed. You’re committed to him. He says he’s committed to you. You’re together. You’re in a relationship. And yet—you feel unchosen. You feel
Sis, I need to talk to you about the measuring stick you keep failing to meet. Many people feel like they are always falling short in relationships, no matter how hard they try. No matter what you do in your relationship, it never feels like enough. You try harder. You give more. You work on