Sis, I need to talk to you about why you feel undesirable when comparing and how comparison makes you feel unwanted. You’re with your partner. You’re in public together. You’re scrolling social media. You’re at a social event. And you see other women. Women who seem: And instantly, you feel undesirable when comparing yourself to
Sis, I need to talk to you about why comparison destroys your confidence and how you lose yourself the moment you start comparing. You wake up feeling good about yourself. Confident. Capable. Enough. Then you scroll social media. Or you meet someone new. Or you see another woman. Or you hear about someone’s success. And
Sis, I need to talk to you about why you assume other women are better than you and the ranking system you’ve created in your mind. You meet a new woman, and you automatically assume other women are better than you. Not sometimes. Not occasionally. Every single time. Before you know anything about her, before
Sis, I need to talk to you about how other women make you feel. A beautiful woman walks into the room—and you immediately feel less than. A confident woman speaks—and you shrink. A successful woman exists—and you feel inadequate. An attractive woman is nearby—and you spiral into insecurity. Other women don’t even have to do
Sis, I need to talk to you about why you compare yourself to women he follows every time you look at his phone. You know you shouldn’t look. You know it hurts. You know nothing good comes from it. But you can’t stop yourself. You scroll through the women he follows on Instagram. The models.