Sis, I need to talk to you about what happens when you express your feelings to him. You tell him something hurt you. You explain why something he said or did affected you. You share your emotional response to a situation. You’re being vulnerable. You’re communicating. You’re sharing your inner experience. And instead of listening,
Sis, I need to talk to you about something that’s probably making you feel like you’re losing your mind. He says something. Something important. During a serious conversation about your relationship, your future, or something that matters to you. You hear it clearly. You remember it. You might have even responded to it in the
Sis, I need to talk to you about something. I see you trying to share your day with him—something that happened at work, something you’re excited about, something that’s bothering you—and within 30 seconds, he’s somehow turned the entire conversation back to himself. You started telling him about your promotion, and now he’s talking about