Sis, I need to talk to you about the thing that should make you feel most secure—but instead fills you with doubt. When someone loves you, you question your worth. Not before. Not when you’re alone. Not when you’re single and independent. When someone shows you love, affection, care—that’s when the doubt floods in. “Why
Sis, I need to talk to you about the painful feeling that won’t go away, even though you’re in a relationship. Many people feel unchosen in relationship even when they are technically committed. You’re committed to him. He says he’s committed to you. You’re together. You’re in a relationship. And yet—you feel unchosen. You feel
Sis, I need to talk to you about the measuring stick you keep failing to meet. Many people feel like they are always falling short in relationships, no matter how hard they try. No matter what you do in your relationship, it never feels like enough. You try harder. You give more. You work on
Sis, I need to talk to you about the loneliest feeling you’re experiencing. Many people feel invisible even when they are doing everything right in life. You’re doing everything right. You’re working hard. You’re being responsible. You’re meeting expectations. You’re checking all the boxes. You’re being the person you think you should be. You’re doing
Sis, I need to talk to you about how hard you’re working for something that should be freely given. Many people believe they must earn love through effort instead of simply receiving it. You’re trying to earn love. You’re working overtime to be good enough, helpful enough, attractive enough, successful enough, perfect enough—to deserve love.
